From Defending to Listening 0

When our partners have a complaint, many of us tend to get defensive.  We explain why we did what we did, or we turn it around to our partner and show how it’s really her fault that we behaved that way!  You might have noticed that this is not helpful.  Defending will quickly escalate the(…)

How You Respond to Good News Can Save Your Marriage 0

According to research, how we respond to our partner’s good news has a strong correlation to the success of our marriage.  When our partner tells us good news, we can respond one of four ways.  I’ll explain with an example.  Your partner tells you she has been offered a promotion at work.  You respond: Negative(…)